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Why leaders lose their most valuable connections — and how to bring important relationships back to life
The main reason is the lack of a system. And one simple solution that changes everything.
The main reason is that leaders don’t have a system for managing relationships. They rely on memory instead.
And this is the main problem many leaders have: they don’t have a system for managing relationships. They rely only on memory. And memory is a very bad CRM.
We’re sure: “Well, I remember, I need to write to this person.” A month goes by, then another, and suddenly it turns out that five strong contacts have just dropped out of your life. Not because anything happened. Simply because we didn’t keep them in our field of attention.
A simple weekly practice that helps “water” your relationships: a list of key people and warm touchpoints without pushiness or selling.
The solution is ridiculously simple. Once a week, I make a small list of my “key people of the week.” Ten minutes; that’s all it takes.
Then I send a short bridge to three of them: a question, a recommendation, a note, a link, a thought, a congratulation. Any small sign of attention.
Here’s what you can send as warm, natural touchpoints — without being pushy or sounding “salesy.” These touches work softly, but build trust and a sense of connection.
A short message of support. For example: “Saw the news about your team — great progress,” or “I remember you mentioned a challenging launch. How did it go?”
A mini recommendation. A film, article, tool, podcast, or book that’s genuinely relevant to them. Not generic spam, but a precise match.
A small insight. One idea from your experience that might be useful: “We discussed topic X in a training today — thought of your project.”
A link to something that solves a real problem. Not “check this out,” but “this might reduce workload / speed things up / save time.”
A small offer of help, with no expectations. For example: “If you’d like, I can connect you with someone who knows this area well.”
A compliment about the work, not the person. “The way you built team dynamics is a strong example. May I reference it in a training?”
An interesting question. “Have you noticed that…?” or “How do you approach…?”
Questions are one of the best ways to open a conversation. A photo or short note about something that reminded you of them. A warm, human touch: “Saw this today — reminded me of our conversation.”
A congratulations message. A product launch, new role, public talk, project milestone.
A micro-update about your work that could be relevant. Not bragging, but context: “Working a lot with B2B teams lately — have a couple of useful observations if you’re interested.”
A short thank-you. For example: “I remember your advice about X — it actually worked.”
A simple human touch with no agenda. “Just wanted to wish you an easy week. I know it’s a busy period for you.”
Bingo! It works!
In a month, the difference is very noticeable. Warm connections start to come back to life. Conversations happen naturally. Opportunities appear — ones I didn’t even know existed.
That’s how strong networking is built — not through big “move mountains” efforts, but through small, consistent touchpoints.
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