Manage cookies
We use cookies to provide the best site experience.
Manage cookies
Cookie Settings
Cookies necessary for the correct operation of the site are always enabled.
Other cookies are configurable.
Essential cookies
Always On. These cookies are essential so that you can use the website and use its functions. They cannot be turned off. They're set in response to requests made by you, such as setting your privacy preferences, logging in or filling in forms.
Analytics cookies
Disabled
These cookies collect information to help us understand how our Websites are being used or how effective our marketing campaigns are, or to help us customise our Websites for you. See a list of the analytics cookies we use here.
Advertising cookies
Disabled
These cookies provide advertising companies with information about your online activity to help them deliver more relevant online advertising to you or to limit how many times you see an ad. This information may be shared with other advertising companies. See a list of the advertising cookies we use here.
Networking, business connections, sales, trusted relationships

How to handle a first meeting so it leads to a relationship, not a “we met and forgot” outcome

Why do some meetings lead to continuation, while others don’t?

What does a truly good meeting actually start with?

At the core of any meeting is respect: for time, for attention, and for the person.
What does it mean to show that respect in your actions before and during a first meeting? Read on.
How not to drag out a meeting and get to the point quickly
A 30-minute meeting means getting to the point in 10 minutes and discussing opportunities in the remaining 20.
How to talk about yourself in a way that’s interesting to the other person
If you talk about yourself, do it through the lens of value for the other person. Not your whole life story, but “here’s what might be relevant for you.”
Do you need a presentation at the first meeting—or does it get in the way?
Slides shouldn’t replace the conversation. People come to talk to you, not to PowerPoint, Google Slides, or a PDF report.
Why is attention in a meeting more important than any arguments?
Literally. No phone. No open laptop. Attention is capital. And if you give it, people want to return it.
Why are pauses in a meeting not awkwardness, but a tool?
They’re not awkward. They give both you and the other person time to think. The dramatic pause… yes—that’s your ally!
How not to come across as “just ticking a box” in a meeting
This isn’t a “box-ticking” meeting. It’s an opportunity—and often a one-time one. Better to say less but make it count than to fill the space with prepared lines.

What should you обязательно think through before the first meeting?

What you want to learn, what you can offer, and what you want the person to remember about you. That’s your anchor. Without it, the meeting will drift.

How do you actually get to that first meeting (and stop avoiding new connections)?

To make that first meeting happen, you need to go out and meet people. Start conversations.

After all, the first meeting is the entry point into a relationship. You don’t have to be liked by everyone. But if you’re attentive and genuine, your chances of continuing grow significantly.

These are the kinds of meetings that spark real projects.
Leonid Bugaev
is an expert in business communications, a corporate trainer, speaker, and conference moderator. He is the author of the books “Mobile Marketing”, “Mobile Networking” and "People Like Me: 99 Rules for Building Connections That Actually Matter."

Follow Leonid on Telegram, Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube so you don’t miss new publications. Also take a look at his business training programs on networking, B2B sales and trendwatching, as well as his books and interviews.